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The Beauty Of Motherhood: My Birth Story
As a new mom, I have come to appreciate the strides women go through to bring life into this world. It’s beautiful yet challenging at the same time. More women should share their stories so the world can appreciate and value us that much more. I’m taking a leap and sharing my beautiful yet challenging…

5 Ways I Reset After Imposter Syndrome
If you’re a returning reader, then you know this is not my first time being transparent and discussing how imposter syndrome has an impact on my life. Imposter syndrome has actively shown up and because of my doubtful mindset, I have missed out on many opportunities. What’s the saying, you miss 100% of the shots…

Where To Start Wedding Planning For The DIY Bride
I recently got married in January and the day was amazing. After getting married, I decided to begin a series here and on Youtube, sharing everything I learned from planning my own wedding. Yes. I planned my entire wedding without a wedding planner. I did all of this in 10 months. It was an expedited…

Venue Tours: 4 Things To Consider On Your Next Tour
In the wedding planning process, the venue is a huge factor of the day and the budget. Venues are much more than cute places to have gatherings. They actually make or break your day. Okay, maybe I’m being dramatic (or not). But basically, venues are important and venue tours and searches can be overwhelming. So…

Understanding The Power Of NO: A Step Towards Self-Confidence
The power of No. What we are all so afraid of; rejection and what it means. The fear of hearing no fuels our insecurities. And when you understand the power no has, you’ll understand how you can begin to build up your self-confidence. We fear no because we fear rejection and not being accepted. A…

How To Rebuild Your Closet After Weight Gain in 6 Ways
Here we are in year two of the pandemic and if you’re like me, your weight has reflected that. Weight fluctuations can not only hit your self-esteem, but they can also take a hit on your closet. It’s easy to get discouraged and upset once you begin to realize that your clothes no longer fit…