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Relationships

Relationships Require We Master Selflessness and Self-Care

We have been seeing celebrity marriages, and people we know, calling it quits because of “irreconcilable differences” so often lately. We’re left wondering what that means and trying to piece together the breaking point from old video clips and photos on social media. When we finally receive an answer – not that we’re entitled to…

The Momcozy S12 Pro: How To Have A Successful Pump Journey With a Wearable Breastpump
Motherhood

The Momcozy S12 Pro: How To Have A Successful Pump Journey With a Wearable Breastpump

This post is sponsored and if you choose to click any of the links below, I will receive a small commission at no additional cost to you.   I was able to provide my son with only breastmilk for the first 8 months of his life. And I had a wearable breast pump to thank…

What I Wore On My First Trip Postpartum 
Motherhood

What I Wore On My First Trip Postpartum 

Finding clothes that increase my happiness hasn’t been that easy postpartum. I’m still in between sizes, my feet haven’t gone back to normal size and I’m still pumping so I need tops that require bras. A lot.  But for my first trip postpartum, I took the extra time to really make some good purchases that…

Parenting Got Much Easier When I Did This 1 Thing
Motherhood

Parenting Got Much Easier When I Did This 1 Thing

Parenting is challenging and sometimes we make it harder than it needs to be. I stopped subscribing to “mommy” social media and parenting got much easier. People don’t talk enough about postpartum anxiety and the worries that come along with stepping into mommyhood. Am I producing enough milk? Is he sleeping enough? What are his…

Girl, Get Some New Makeup: 4 Products To Replace First In Your Makeup Kit.
Makeup & Beauty

Girl, Get Some New Makeup: 4 Products To Replace First In Your Makeup Kit.

Trends change, life changes, preferences change, and makeup expires…. Have you been using that same foundation since 2020? It’s time to do some spring cleaning and rebuild your makeup kit. I’m saying it for me too girl. It’s time to dump the old products and get some new ones.  We haven’t talked about this since…