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Hey Girl, I’m Spechel!

I’m the creator of this space, Set Your Beauty Standard, where black women can find security in their own definitions of beauty because here we believe beauty is truly yours. Here we tackle topics on makeup, motherhood, self-care & relationships, and how all of these aspects of life impact how you see, live out, and practice beauty.

Relationships Require We Master Selflessness and Self-Care
We have been seeing celebrity marriages, and people we know, calling it quits because of “irreconcilable differences” so often lately. We’re left wondering what that means and trying to piece together the breaking point from old video clips and photos on social media. When we finally receive an answer – not that we’re entitled to…

The Momcozy S12 Pro: How To Have A Successful Pump Journey With a Wearable Breastpump
This post is sponsored and if you choose to click any of the links below, I will receive a small commission at no additional cost to you. I was able to provide my son with only breastmilk for the first 8 months of his life. And I had a wearable breast pump to thank…
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Hey Girl, I’m Spechel!

I’m the creator of this space, Set Your Beauty Standard, where black women can find security in their own definitions of beauty because here we believe beauty is truly yours. Here we tackle topics on makeup, confidence, self-care & self-discovery, relationships and how all of these aspects of life impact how you see, live out, and practice beauty.